He maha nga tautohetohe a te wahine marena hou i runga i te ipurangi i muri i tana tono whakahoki mo te marena a tana hoa kua whakakorehia.
Ko te wahine marena hou, e tuhi ana i raro i te ingoa ingoa Skibooper, i whakapuaki i tana korero i roto i te Reddit's AITA ( Am I The A ****** ) huinga. I whakamarama tana pou i te ahua o te kakahu 0 i puta ai he raru nui o te whanau.
I tuhi a Skibooper i whakakorea e ia tana marena na te mate urutaru, he whakatau i tautokohia e ana hoa me te whanau katoa. Arā, hāunga te kotahi wahine marena hou , kei te tuku karere whakamataku me te tono moni mo tana kakahu kore.
'I haere ia ki te poikiri'
I kii te wahine marena hou i roto i tana panui kaore i whakaroa i tana marena, ka whakakore noa ia i te hui ka oma.
I te wa i korero ai matou ki to maatau marena mo te whakakorenga, i tautoko te katoa, i tuhi ia.
Ko tetahi wahine marena hou i tautohetohe ki te whakatau, ahakoa. Ka rite ki te whakamarama a Skibooper, i haere tonu ia ki te korero kua kore e taea e ia te whakamahi i tana kakahu 0.
I tukuna e [ia] tana tane ki taku korero ki a ia kua he nui tana mahi, ka tono mai ki ahau me te kii mai i ahau he ingoa kino me te whakatuma, me te tono kia utua e ia tana moni mo tana kakahu, ka tuhi te wahine marena hou.
'Kaore au e mohio he aha tana mahi penei'
I whakahoki te tane a te wahine marena hou ki te wahine marena hou e riri ana, ka korero ki a ia kei te tuku moni ta ratou toa marena. Heoi, ka tohe tonu te wahine kia utua e te tokorua kua marenatia inaianei.
Kaore au i te mohio he aha ia i penei ai, ka tuhi te wahine marena hou. I teie nei, te haamǎta‘u ra o ’na i te afai ia ’u i mua i te haavaraa tivira no nia i te hoê ahu 140 tara. Kaore au e whakaae ki te tuku moni ki a ia na te mea e mohio ana ahau ka taea te whakahoki mai.
Ko te raruraru i raruraru me te mamae i te wahine marena hou, nana i kii te ahuatanga he paru me te kino.
I ngana ahau ki te haangai ma te kore he huihuinga nui a inaianei kei te whakatoia ahau me te whakatuma e te tangata kare au i mohio he take ki ahau, ka kii ia.
'Ehara i te mea mo te kakahu'
Ko nga korero a Reddit i tino whakaae ki te wahine marena hou. Heoi ano, he maha nga whakaaro i korero mo te take i riri ai te wahine marena hou.
Ehara i te mea mo te kakahu, i tuhi tetahi kaiwhakamahi . Kaore koe e korero ki tetahi kua he ratou i roto i te hoa-ora mo te kakahu. Ka mahia e koe na te mea ka mau tonu te pohewa ka puhipuhi koe me to 'hoa' i a koe e marena ana, kaore ano ia, engari inaianei kua marenatia ano ia, kua pupuhihia o pohehe.
Kua mau ia i te kakahu, kare e taea te whakahoki mai ano ko taku whakaaro, tetahi atu ariā .
I tua atu i nga take, ko te nuinga o nga kaikorero i whakaae ko nga tono a te wahine marena hou kaore e whakaaetia.
Kaore ia e whai mana ki te tono moni atu i a koe ina taea e ia te whakahoki mai i te kakahu mo te utu katoa. Kaore he kooti e haere ki te taha ki a ia ina whiriwhiria e ia kia kaua e whakaae ki te whakahokinga moni katoa, i tuhi tetahi kaiwhakamahi .
Mena i pai ki a koe tenei korero, tirohia In The Know's new advice column, Kōrerorero Rōpū .
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